A Way Out
Step on the Path!
At the heart of "A Way Out" are three essential components designed to help you achieve lasting freedom. The Five Pillars of a Sound Mind provide a solid foundation for growth and resilience. The Mind-Action Framework guides you in understanding and reshaping the cycle of beliefs, thoughts, and actions. And with the support of a coach, you’ll have someone by your side, offering personalized guidance and encouragement every step of the way. Together, these elements create a clear and effective path to transformation.
Five Pillars of a Sound Mind
For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind - 2 Timothy 1:7 -
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Means using each setback as a learning opportunity, rather than letting it hold you back. This pillar focuses on resilience—helping you acknowledge your mistakes, analyze them, and use them to grow stronger.
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Teaches you how to ride out the wave of temptation without giving in. This pillar is about endurance—building the ability to sit with discomfort and resist the pull of destructive behaviors.
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Focuses on helping you discover your “why”—the deep, compelling reason behind your desire to change. This pillar is about clarity—understanding your core beliefs, values, and the meaningful life you want to live.
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Is about changing how you see yourself—moving away from shame and guilt and toward a healthy, honest, and loving view of who you are. This pillar is about identity—redefining your self-worth, your beliefs, and your capacity to change.
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Teaches you how to manage difficult feelings—such as shame, guilt, and disappointment—without turning to unhealthy coping mechanisms. This pillar is about strength—building the emotional resilience needed to stay the course, even when things get tough.
The Mind-Action Framework
Watching porn doesn’t just happen. It’s NOT automatic!
Beliefs Create Our Thoughts
Thoughts Create Our Feelings
Feelings Create Our Actions
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Actions Reinforce Our Beliefs
A Coach To Help You Through It
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"I want to help you find your way out and to give you everything you need to reach a future free from porn"
Founder & Coach: Derrick Slocum
FAQs
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Is it worth asking for help if you can overcome your pornography habit? Ask yourself if it's worth feeling embarrassed or scared to open up about this.
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The amazing thing about this program is that it teaches you how to use mistakes to your advantage. Mistakes, slip ups, setbacks, etc. don't bring you back to step one. We don't measure success by how many porn free days we have, rather we measure success by our intentional and habitual practice of each skill within the program.
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You've tried other methods and those haven't worked. Are you willing to try something new that doesn't rely only on willpower, porn blocking programs, or accountability groups?
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You may have tried quitting porn in the past only to go back to it in the end. That's what happens when the focus is on fighting each day to stay porn free. Avoiding porn and trying to power through the urges doesn't address why you're using pornography. We help you understand why and what you can practice to actually live porn free.
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Coaching is different for everyone because everyone moves at their own pace. Private coaching supports you as you move through the program and learn the skills that will help you quit pornography. Some material you may get very quickly, and other practices may come slower and with an amount of difficulty. Your coach will be there to help you understand and grasp the concepts within the program.